Sex Post Kids

Sex Post Kids

As I write this I am on a short flight between Sydney and Melbourne, sitting on a row of three seats in between two males I don’t know. I’ve been having second thoughts whether to write an article about sexual intimacy right now or perhaps write it a bit later when I’m not in such close company… So what am I so afraid of? I guess my fears are around a fear of judgement and a fear of vulnerability that comes with talking openly about sex. You’ll know if I have confronted these fears and tackled them head on if I get to the end of this article and you are reading it! My husband and I have been married for ten years. We have an amazing marriage and a good sex life.  By “good” I mean it’s great when we do have sex but it’s nowhere near frequent enough! Our energy levels and “alone” time away from our kids are the two biggest factors we have to juggle. In the time we’ve been together, we have never really researched much around sex. It has been something that I have been interested in doing but for no specific reason we haven’t been down this road until now.. On Tuesday a friend of mine visited me and told me of a lady she had met at a yoga retreat in Byron Bay. This lady, Margot Anand, specialized in Tantra and my friend told me I had to go and see her. It just so happened that she was on tour in Sydney the next night. I asked my husband if...